Funerals are for the living, not the deceased.
To say “consensual sex” implies that there is such a thing as “non consensual sex,” which there isn’t. That is rape. “Consensual sex” is just sex. That is what it needs to be called. There is only sex or rape. Do not teach people that rape is just another kind of sex; they are two very separate events.
Maybe if you spent less time bitching about your life you’d enjoy it more.
The grass is greener where you water it.